Laughing through your no's
It's so funny how we can take things so personally when someone says "no" to what we have to offer. I know I have done this and gone to that place that says, "Oh, no, the person doesn't like me. What's wrong with me?" And then this emotion can spill over into other things. When really the best thing to do is catch it before it spills.
How do we catch it? When you think about it, each one of us has the right to say "no" and decide what is the best fit for us. It's our own attachment to a person that will cause the spill to become huge.
Here's a statement from Wayne Dyer that will speak to this concept. "When we squeeze an orange, what comes out? Orange juice. It doesn't matter what tool you used to squeeze the orange–orange juice will always come out. Likewise, if we get angry because someone says no, it doesn't matter who did the squeezing or what tool they used (words, etc.), anger is what is inside so anger is what will come out."
Release the attachment to their response….it doesn't matter what a person says, it only matters who we are in the conversation with him or her. Check out the video so you can laugh through your no's.
