You may be familiar with Ho'oponopono. It's a process created by Dr. Len from Hawaii in the 1980's. As a therapist working in a state hospital, he used this process to help heal in him that which he saw in his outer world. Namely, the patients who were in the criminally insane ward.

As a therapist, he never saw the patients. In his office, he would take out their files and heal in him what he saw in the words printed on the paper. As he was with their files, he would say, "I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you." Dr. Len kept in mind that everyone, including the patients in that ward, were all creations of the Divine. They were all perfect beings.

With this said, if he saw patients as anything but Divine, then he had the problem. And this is where Ho'oponopono comes in. It's cleaning and releasing that which is within us that sees the problem. By using the four statements, this natural cleaning process will get in touch with our memories that experience anything as a problem. It's like we're calling the Divine on the "bat phone," and asking for guidance to neutralize the problem memory .

I've found this an incredible process because when I first started my business, I would label people as their problems….oh, she is "self-sabotage or depression." When I was introduced to Ho'oponopono, I then created the Roto-Rooter within me and only see my clients as Divine and have dropped the labels. This has really helped me be a different practitioner.

May you enjoy seeing only the essence in everyone, in everything. And be sure and use the bat phone to call the Divine…as He/She/All knows best .

Okay, now you know what the phrase "eye candy" means, right? It means that a man has a beautiful woman on his arm, and the whole world goes "goo goo ga ga" over her because of her radiant beauty. This in turn makes the man feel really good as he feels this beautiful woman is an extension of him.

Well, now, how can we captivate this imagery, and cast the same sort of "goo goo ga ga" on us so the whole world looks at our radiant beauty?

It's "melt in your mouth easy":).

You simply generate loving feelings for yourself and your entire world. When you think about it, everything, including ourselves, started with loving energy. And the loving energy is still there…might just be hiding real deep, but it is still there.

Like Marianne Williamson illustrates, "There are two kinds of behaviors. One is a call for love and one is an extension of love." And we know both of these very well. We know when we're an extension of loving energy because we're happy and joyful. And we know when we're an extension of a call for love because we're scared and worried.

Thus, when you look at the latter explanation, it is remembering just to switch this energy and come into balance. Being fearful doesn't generate love, only fear. And we want to extend love to ourselves first, and then to the world.

Forgiveness helps…

Sometimes we're feeling fearful because we are not forgiving ourselves or others for past experience. This can certainly happen for me. When I've made decisions in regards to my business that I felt weren't the best, and I beat up on myself, I'm screaming, "Please love me anyway." Who I really want to love me is ME.

You may relate to this….

Thus, now I know that there's nothing more important than loving myself and coming into balance. So I switch my feelings in this moment, and give myself some good lovin' experiences.

One experience you can use is combine EFT with Ho'oponopono, and say, "I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you," and tap on the energy points. By doing this you're anchoring in these statements at a cellular level so the conscious of who you are registers the new vibration of love.

Now, you're ready to go out into the world, and expose yourself as the eye candy person with your mind candy techniques. The world, the non-physical loving energy beings, will now recognize your vibration of love, and bring you "melt in your mouth" experiences.

Yummy, isn't it?