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There hasn't been any mention of money as people go through near death experiences or what I like to call multi-dimensional experiences (MDE). This said, we are not to focus on attaining more. It's really about attaining less that we become more.

We know in our true identity that we are formlessness and embody peace, love, stillness, light. We have been this throughout time!

In my own MDE, I embodied such profound peace that it's challenging to convey because how does one describe profound peace where no thoughts exist. Hence, as others have described their experiences, there's a similar theme of peace, love, light, Jesus, Buddha, and no mention of money.

When we're focused on money which isn't even mentioned and has no significance in the higher realms, we're locked into our ego, our personality. The money appears so to speak when we focus on who we truly are as light, as peace, as radiance, as love. Money can appear when our minds focus on it, but it will be short-lived, and will come with all sorts of frustration attached to it. The natural flow of everything, including money, is where you want to live.

You know, we're not trying to get anything as you can't attain anything more. You are already that! You become more by letting go of that which is not you.

As you focus on your pure light, love and your heart, you actually become who you are as an eternal being. You want your education to be "eternal" education, not simply in this physical time and space.

You are not attached to anything as no-thing belongs to you. You are being given an extraordinary opportunity to allow yourself to be guided with losing control of your personality, your mind. We are not in control of anything even though our physical mind "thinks" we are, and will try and convince us 100% that we are. Our consciousness is in control…always! People who have experienced multi-dimensional experiences will tell you that they are led through many facets of space without their doing anything to assist the process.

We aren't asked to open up our portfolio of our so called net worth. We're not asked to show proof of our income, our checking account, our savings account or how much we owe anyone. It's interesting to believe that we actually could illustrate our net worth by anything other than love. Yet, our physical minds have led us to believe this and through great pains, we have allowed this to occur. Numbers have no meaning whatsoever!

Do no-thing, attain no-thing and become all things!

What an interesting title, right? It stems (no pun intended) from a neighbor's flower garden, and in that flower garden is a sign, "Grow Dammit." And I always laugh when I walk by it, but it brings up some valuable messages.

Recently, my boyfriend bought me three dozen roses for Valentines from Costco. They arrived from Columbia in great condition, and are so beautiful. As I was caring for them changing their water and cutting their stems, I was aware of a deeper message and it has to do with that sign.

I realized that each rose was at its own stage of development, and no rose was further along than the rest. They all were included in the bouquet, and I didn't want to serve as the judge in looking at those roses as to whom is blooming and who isn't. And how was I going to facilitate a faster growth .

This serves as a metaphor for our lives, and one in which I just have to stop and smell the roses . When I have been judgmental and hard on myself, it's because I believe that my growth should be something different. I haven't recognized my own blooming phase, and realize that I'm where I am, and I'm beautiful. These roses were delivered to me with an underlying message, and one that I am fully embracing.

Thus, maybe you can benefit as well. When you hear that internal voice that says, "Grow Dammit," realize that it's your own ego, your own physical mind, that wants you to be somewhere different. Yet, that somewhere different doesn't exist. With this said, you can quiet the mind, and says, "It's okay. I love where I am, and my blooms are beautiful." And then laugh because it feels good.

May you recognize your own growth, your own stage of evolution, and that it's absolutely perfect. By the way, I like you being part of my bouquet.

What a journey to learn about true love. We have often heard that word "unconditional," and through our journey we will uncover what it truly means for us.

Unconditional is a definition that basically says, "There are no conditions placed on you." With this said, how many of us are experiencing unconditional love? I am experiencing this more and more, and am still learning about it through placing conditions on others. I am so grateful for all the synchronistic people who have stuck by me, and who continue to stick by me so that I may learn. Awakening is always a process of unfolding, and we wouldn't have it any other way .

In the video I read an excerpt from an anonymous person, and wanted to capture it here in written form:

"Love is the free exercise of choice. Two people love each other when they are quite capable of living without each other, but choose to live with each other. Do not mistake love for need, as love does not need or require validation for its existence. Therefore, love does ot have attachments or agendas.

Most have not yet fallen in love; they have only fallen in need — need to be heard, need to be validated, need to feel secure, and need to feel loved.

True love can only be experienced when you no longer need to be loved because you have completed yourself with your inner love that you have become one with. Only then can you experience being in true love. Because you no longer need the other person, and that is when you can truly love and respect the other person for who they are, not for what you need them to be so you may feel loved."

Beautiful, isn't it?

Just be aware on your journey when you are fallen in need, and simply witness it. Then you allow the love to flow from that aspect who is noticing to the one who is in need. It's all in us for the essence of love to be explored. Thus, look at it like an adventure .